Why am i doing this?

why have i decided to open a blog after so many months laughing at others? well, the most proximal reason is that my friend (hereafter referred to as AKA) just asked me to. In my search for love, I have fallen into having to provide daily updates to him and others regarding the status of various relationships (calling them 'relationships' is sometimes a stretch). In fact, another great friend (hereafter referred to as SBL) has suggested that I post status upgrades for various men in my life on the web - you know, just an easy way to let them know how I am feeling about them.

Another reason is that I have noticed after 15 months of dating and attempted dating in NYC that my experiences have been, at best, extremely entertaining and, at worst, mildly entertaining. So, although I have not found love, I have certainly found a lot of laughs....

I am also about to start on-line dating (well, that is not really true since I briefly tried eharmony) but i think going on nerve or match or whatever will be much more interesting. And I mostly want a reference for when I am someday in a relationship and find myself missing the good 'ol days - hopefully this will be more accurate than my memory and remind me that things were not so good (and, of course, not so bad).

this entry is my first and kind of sucks, I realize but, like my search for love, hopefully will improve with time and practice.

boyakasha!