dating advice

Well, according to this article (and soon to be published thesis), this whole dating thing might actually worsen my chances of finding mr. right....

People are particles

Perhaps I should not do anything drastic until I can review the article myself, eh?

Just returned from a very mellow weekend in Montauk - much needed after my 3 dates last week. There was Eyeon, CobaltDan and a non-nerve date (suggested by SBL), we'll call him Mr. Contrary (not sure why i called him Fastlip in my previous post - I think I was under the influence).

In any case, all three boys have expressed interest in seeing me again and I'm thinking the 2 date minimum rule applies here.

So, I might have another busy week ahead of me. Urgh. This dating thing is exhausting. And enjoyable. Why my thoughts keep lingering on imPerfect is beyond me, however. Actually not too beyond. I have been thinking about what is so attractive about him and I realize that, for some reason, I feel very comfortable talking to him about anything. Perhaps it is because he has opened up to me? has himself thought a lot about the things I have been struggling with? he makes me feel safe being me - content or dissatisfied. I just plain like the guy despite acknowledging that he is kind of an asshole.

Or maybe it is all pheromones.....