First official nerve 'letdown'

No, no no - it is not architect - it is too early for that, i meet him in 2.5 hours.

B.e.d. (thanks kenny g) wrote asking for a second date. We all know the chance of THAT happening is only slightly greater than the chance that the Israelis really mean to un-settle more than 2% of their stolen land - so I had to write the 'no, thanks' letter. I contemplated citing major infractions such as not knowing what i did and minor ones, too, such as lying about your height...but then decided that although I often think this might be the case, it is not my job to educate the world. Plus, I thought he might think I was mean - even though it might be good advice for him to have.

So, I settled on 'there is no chemistry for me' - honest and final, i think.

This was harder than it should be. Time to grow a tough outer shell that is not in-NERV-ated....