Cobatldan tries again..

He called me this afternoon - said he had just gotten back from his much needed weekend to find my message. He said he really wanted to see me and could I go out tonight?

I suggested that I call him 'last minute Dan' - last minute to make plans AND break them...(I left that last part out)

I am all for spontaneity as long as it does not border on or serve as an excuse for something much more simple and destructive - selfishness. I mean, really, what is the big deal with making dinner plans at least ONE day ahead of time? Maybe jumping out of a plane 2000+ times changes your perspective on the rest of the world?

In any case, I told him I'd have to think about it (which I did) and called back a couple hours later and left a message that I was not going to be able to make it tonight but that we could try for this week...

have not heard back yet...